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1)  Accept  the negative feelings. The key to this is not to deny what we are feeling, but rather to  lean into  our feelings, even if they are painful. Take a moment to be mindful and narrate: "I'm feeling anxious right now," or, "This situation is making me tense." Hang in there with unpleasant feelings at least long enough to acknowledge them. This is the gist of  emotion coaching  kids: We help them label what they are feeling, and we validate that their feelings are okay. With younger kids, the challenge is helping them understand that while bad feelings are always all right, bad behavior never is. Be crystal clear about this. For example, it is totally okay that your child is feeling jealous and hateful toward her sister. At the same time, it is never okay to hit her. 2)  Problem solve . What did you learn from that embarrassing situation? What can you do to improve a difficult situation tomorrow? Who els...